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RED FLAGS... Coercive Control

Posted on 1 September 2025

It starts with the little things, 'I don't like your hair this way' or 'I don't like that top'. Before long, it's taken over your life.

It's okay to accept someone's opinion on things, and everyone has a right to have their own point of view. When the statements get treated as 'law' in a relationship, then you have a problem. This creates a fear of what your partner might do when they don't like something. When their reactions dictate your behaviours, it has become controlling. Before long, you can't make decisions on your own, and you feel imprisoned by their rules and regulations. You feel like you have been taken by force and being held against your will.



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